A groundswell of senior advocates and law enforcement say Iowa has gone far too long without an elder-abuse law that has real teeth to it. With the legislative session now in its next phase, supporters hope their plan will still get a look.

Last week saw the deadline for the legislative funnel, where bills that aren't deemed major priorities are weeded out. Those behind the elder-abuse law feel the plan is still alive and are appealing to lawmakers to hear stories behind their movement.

Crystal Doig, elder rights/family caregiver supervisor with Aging Resources of Central Iowa, said there are many heartbreaking examples that mainly center around financial exploitation.

"We have individuals who use their parent's money to pay child support, paying their own house payments, paying for cars," said Doig.

This goes on without the elder parent's knowledge and can be especially problematic when the victim is suffering from dementia. Bill supporters say the existing statute is too narrow, making it harder for authorities and state agencies to investigate.

The measure has no stated opposition from lobbyists, and groups such as AARP hope it survives the next legislative cutoff later in March.

Doig said one of the more recent examples that stands out is an 82-year-old woman who was not aware her adult son put her $80,000 in debt, likely forcing her from her home. She said the trauma that stems from these cases can't be ignored.

"When there's financial abuse happening," said Doig, "then most likely there's emotional abuse, psychological abuse and quite possibly physical threats and violence."

She said the fallout usually means these parents will have fractured relationships with their adult children, and possibly won't see them again.

Meanwhile, AARP staff say the bill has been updated to address any concerns on how adding criminal provisions would impact issues such as charitable giving.

They add that even though Iowa is behind other states in updating the policy, the current plan is more aggressive than other laws around the country.

Aging brings with it new questions on how we can live our best lives and a new book could help people answer some of those questions.

One of the most important focuses is on caregiving.

Debra Whitman is author of "The Second Fifty: Answers to the Seven Big Questions of Midlife and Beyond." She's originally from Electric City, Washington, and is an alumna of Gonzaga University. Whitman said when she reached age 50, she had a lot of questions. She noted caregiving is one of the tricky questions, especially for caregivers.

"Many people have to hire somebody in but that's extremely expensive," Whitman pointed out. "Nursing homes and long-term care facilities are extremely expensive. So, far too many people have to quit their job in order to care for somebody that they love."

Whitman noted there are more than 820,000 caregivers assisting a loved one in Washington state, more than one in 10 residents. Whitman is also chief policy officer for AARP. The organization has resources for caregiving on its website.

Whitman acknowledged Washington state is excelling in the caregiving arena in part because of the program WA Cares, which recently survived a ballot measure that would have gutted it. She said WA Cares lets people age at home.

"It offers some resources in order to pay either for the family member who has to take time off of work, to buy things to make their homes more accessible, or to pay a paid caregiver," Whitman outlined. "This is an incredible program that you have in Washington."

Whitman stressed caregivers need time off too, and people who are not caregivers can help with that.

"Sometimes just giving somebody an hour off to go get a haircut for themselves or to go to the doctor for themselves," Whitman added. "How can we as a community step in, give somebody a ride to a doctor's office? Lots of the different things that people need as they age."

Pennsylvania voters aged 50 and older are expected to play a pivotal role in the upcoming election, motivated by key issues, and could affect the results.

At a recent AARP Pennsylvania Women's Roundtable, suburban women 50 and older discussed top concerns, with an AARP poll revealing 60% felt the country is on the wrong track.

Betty from Chester County agreed and said coming out of the pandemic, inflation rose 8%, affecting families and the economy.

"Those prices that are out there, coming down very slowly or perhaps they're not increasing as much because the inflation is higher," Betty observed. "That is the difficult part to understand for families that have to buy groceries. Groceries are 25% more."

The AARP poll showed 94% of women are more likely to vote for a candidate who supports making sure workers get the Social Security they paid into and earned through a lifetime of hard work.

The poll found the biggest cost concerns to voters 50+ in Pennsylvania are food, utilities, health care and prescription drug costs.

Colleen from Bucks County said health care costs in Pennsylvania look promising and are headed in the right direction.

"One of the things that I'm seeing are some reductions in our health care costs, especially through Medicare, and with the opportunities to see that across the board," Colleen pointed out. "But for now, through Medicare, we're seeing that, and that's going well."

Elizabeth of Mount Lebanon in Allegheny County said leaders do not seem to be listening to communities' concerns. She added a big part of the issue also stems from the misinformation and disinformation spread by candidates, leaving people uncertain about who truly represents their perspective and interests in daily life.

"I am of Puerto Rican heritage, and I find that not only in Pittsburgh but even in Pennsylvania, during the elections, everyone's out looking for Latino votes," Elizabeth explained. "I don't think that the Latino population as a whole is listened to, except for to say negative things about immigrants."

Charlotte is also from Mount Lebanon. She recommended policymakers be more aware of the resources for grandparents who are caregivers of their grandchildren because of the opioid crisis. She added she has been taking care of her grandson for quite some time. In Pennsylvania alone, more than 235,000 grandparents are raising grandchildren.

"The opioid crisis has left a generation of children who have great needs," Charlotte emphasized. "There was settlement money provided to Pennsylvania, and I did look into that, but of the $73 million of the opioid settlement money, none of it was earmarked for these families."

The poll found 71% of women 50+ and 70% of suburban women are more likely to vote for a candidate who would help provide a tax credit for unpaid family caregivers who work to help cover the costs associated with caring for a family member.


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October is Long-Term Care Planning Month, and a few tips can help people when talking with their loved ones about this topic. Conversations about long-term care can be difficult.

Bandana Shrestha, AARP Oregon state director, said approaching the topic with compassion and care is key and noted that the 470,000 family caregivers in Oregon provide most of the care for close friends and family members, and need to be part of planning conversations.

"Making sure that you're talking early is really important, and also making sure you are involving all parties who may responsible for supporting somebody is really important," Shrestha said.

The population of people over age 65 is increasing rapidly in the U.S. and most will need long-term care supports of some kind, underscoring the need to begin planning for how that care will look.

Open enrollment for Medicare began this week and lasts through December 7th. But Shrestha noted the insurance program doesn't cover long-term care.

"There are certain provisions within Medicare where you can get some supports for being able to have short stays in long-term care facilities," Shrestha continued. "But otherwise, Medicare is really about your health care. It's your health insurance."

Oregon performed well on AARP's recent Long-Term Services and Supports Scorecard, ranking number seven in the nation. Although the state could do better in areas such as affordability, Shrestha says the state ranks high in terms of support for family caregivers.

"The reasons for that are policies like our recent paid leave law, which really is designed to help ensure that people have supports and can take time off when they need to care for themselves or for their loved ones," Shrestha said.