By Carrie Baker for Ms. Magazine.
Broadcast version by Lily Böhlke for Illinois News Connection reporting for the Ms. Magazine-Public News Service Collaboration

Melissa Grant is the chief operations officer of the abortion provider carafem, which opened their first abortion clinic in the Washington, D.C., metro area in 2015 and began offering telemedicine abortion in Georgia in 2019 through Gynuity Health Project's TelAbortion study. Early in the pandemic, they expanded their TelAbortion services to Illinois and Maryland. In July of 2020, when a Maryland federal court lifted an FDA in-person distribution requirement for the abortion pill mifepristone, carafem expanded the service to still more states.

carafem now offers telemedicine abortion in 11 states-Connecticut, Georgia, Iowa, Illinois, Massachusetts, Maryland, Nevada, New Jersey, Rhode Island, Virginia and Vermont-plus the District of Columbia.

Ms. spoke to Melissa about how and why carafem began offering telehealth abortion services.

Carrie Baker: Could you tell me about your background and practice?

Melissa Grant: I'm an administrator at carafem, which I founded eight years ago. We are a network of family planning and reproductive healthcare clinics that started in Chevy Chase, Maryland, a couple blocks from Washington, D.C. The idea behind carafem was to see what we can offer that might be different than the way abortion care was traditionally provided in the U.S. in an effort to make abortion more accessible. Where I had worked previously, it was not uncommon for large groups of people to come in for care and have it take maybe four or five hours to receive it. We focused on client-centered where the client calls the shots. In one-on-one conversations, we review how each person wants to receive care, let them lead the conversation, and don't interrupt them. And that has been successful-both in person and online.

Carrie Baker: How many telemedicine abortion patients have you seen since the FDA restriction was lifted in July of 2020?

Melissa Grant: We've provided high-quality, safe and effective telehealth abortion care to several thousand clients.

Carrie Baker: How do your patients find you?

Melissa Grant: We developed a really strong and unapologetic presence out in the community about the fact that we're an abortion care provider. What we've found is that one of the first places people go when seeking abortion care is Google, so we focus ad budgets and create content that meets clients where they are. We also use social media and outdoor ads at certain times. We are crystal clear about what we do. Hence the tagline, "Abortion. Yeah, we do that." Many of our clients publish reviews on Google or Yelp, which we share far and wide to let our clients speak to our level of care.

Carrie Baker: So once a patient gets to your website, tell me about the process.

Melissa Grant: hey can either make an appointment through our website (carafem.org) or they can call us. We are open six days a week from about 8 o'clock in the morning till 8 o'clock at night. We have English and Spanish speaking agents, as well as translation services for multiple languages to try and be as welcoming and inclusive as possible.

Carrie Baker: Once somebody makes an appointment, what happens next?

Melissa Grant: If they live in a state where there's not a state-mandated waiting period, they could potentially make an appointment on the same day and meet with a carafem clinician online that same day. In some states, for instance Georgia, there's a 24-hour waiting period that's required. With a telemedicine appointment, you can schedule it on the phone, or you can schedule it as a video call.

Then, we send some forms to fill out ahead of time and some information about the process. We collect their health history. To get ready for the informed consent process, we send information about risks, alternatives and benefits. That all can be done online through secure email if they have the ability to use email. We have an option where you can click a link from your smartphone to access the forms and educational information. If they don't have access to email, they can call us and we will review the information over the phone.

At the time of your appointment, you click a unique link and you're in a virtual waiting room. There's some information in there to read through while you're waiting, though most people don't wait more than a couple minutes. It's a fully private room-no one else will be in the waiting room with you. Then a care coordinator signs in and joins your visit. It's a secure video conference platform that's made specifically for telehealth visits.

During that time, we review your health history, talk about how the medicines work, when you will take them, how to know if they worked or not, how to know when you need to contact us, and what our follow up process will be like. We talk about birth control. The whole thing takes maybe 15-20 minutes, if that.

Then we bring a physician onto the call to review the informed consent, make sure the client understands how to use the medications, and give the client the opportunity to ask questions. That's usually fairly simple. At that point, the physician approves the prescription that is then electronically sent to an online pharmacy.

Carrie Baker: How long does it take to get the abortion pills?

Melissa Grant: Most clients receive their medication within a day to three days. If they want it sooner, we can expedite. They will receive a tracking number, generally within a few hours, and they can track the medication on its way.

Carrie Baker: On your website, you say you send the pills in discreet packaging. What does that mean?

Melissa Grant: Oftentimes one of the concerns that our clients have is, "When this is delivered to my mailbox, what will it look like?" We use a plain shipping box. It does not have our address on it. It has a P.O. box return address or the address of the pharmacy in the corner, and it doesn't say what it is. And if they live in a circumstance where they can't get mail, we can arrange to have it sent to a shipping service in their community like UPS or FedEx or a drop box, and they can go pick it up. We send the mifeprex package, and we also send along a few mints because the medicine tastes bad, some herbal tea-sometimes tea settles tummies, a heating pad, a pad to get you started, some anti-nausea medications, some ibuprofen, a pregnancy test and basic birth control if you want it. And some educational materials. We've heard from many clients that they appreciate the little extras in our package.

Carrie Baker: What kind of follow-up care do you provide?

Melissa Grant: We conctact every single one of our clients generally within two to three days after taking the medication. We set that up beforehand. For some of our clients, they actually prefer to use a text-based system so they can text us if they want.

We want to know a few things. Did you take the medication successfully? Did you see cramping and bleeding? Did things seem within the normal expectations that we discussed for cramping and bleeding? We want to make sure it's not too much, and not too little bleedng. Are you starting to see a decrease in pregnancy symptoms? And do you feel like you had a complete abortion?

If all those answers are yes, we see if there are any other issues. If they wanted a birth control method, we make sure they've taken that or are about to take it or know how to take it. We also include a pregnancy test in the package they receive and ask that about four weeks out if they took the test and to send us the result.

Carrie Baker: Do they do that by text usually?

Melissa Grant: They can do it by text, by phone or by portal. If we don't hear from you, we'll give you a call and ask.

Carrie Baker: What percentage of folks follow up and how?

Melissa Grant: The majority of clients follow up because we contact them proactively. That first phone call is when we identify most problems, like needing more medication or needing to come into one of our clinics. It's very rarely urgent. Less than 0.4 percent of our clients have a problem where they would require treatment of any kind. Less than 2 percent have any kind of concern about an ongoing pregnancy.

Carrie Baker: Do you have appointments at night and weekends?

Melissa Grant: We do. We have physicians and nurse practitioners that are licensed across the U.S. So for different time zones, we have different people that take shifts that can actually help to do follow up for any of the communities that we're in.

Carrie Baker: What do you charge for telemedicine abortion services?

Melissa Grant: Between $250 and $375 out of pocket, depending on medication. We offer financial assistance to those who qualify. In some of our communities, we take Medicaid, such as Illinois. We also take private insurance. We also work with abortion funds, organizations that provide financial assistance for abortion care.

Carrie Baker: If someone has trouble paying, do you work with them?

Melissa Grant: If you have a concern about paying, we ask that you give us a call. Our staff are really, really good about working with people to find options. We have a relationship with many of the abortion funding organizations. If we've collected the information that they need, we can contact a fund and then get back to a client saying we've secured funding for you and this is how much we ask that you to bring.

Carrie Baker: Do you offer advance provision abortion pills?

Melissa Grant: We don't now but we are undergoing a thorough analysis on a state by state basis to understand legal and medical implications.

Carrie Baker: Do you offer missed period pills?

Melissa Grant: Yes, we do. We actually were doing a Gynuity study in D.C. last year on missed period pills that temporarily paused during the pandemic. We have had clients who tell us, "I can tell you when my last period was. I've not had a positive pregnancy test. I prefer not to." We let them know clearly, if you do this and you're pregnant, it's an abortion, and if you do this and you're not pregnant, you're taking medication that you probably don't need. We tell them the risks, however small they may be, and ask, "Are you comfortable with that?" The key is making sure that that client is fully aware of what this medication will do one way or the other.

Carrie Baker: Can you tell me about who your telemedicine abortion patients are?

Melissa Grant: We're seeing more people from rural communities, micropolitan areas and small towns. During the worst of the pandemic, we saw many more low-income clients. Now, as other healthcare professionals are finding out, we're seeing telehealth numbers shift a little bit as people are going back in for healthcare, face to face.

Carrie Baker: Why do your patients say they are using telemedicine abortion?

Melissa Grant: The most common answer that we hear is it's easier. They don't have to travel. Childcare is an issue. During the pandemic, it was limiting their exposure to other people. Lately, I've been hearing it's more discreet and more private to be able to do it from home. We have people that do the meeting from their living room, we have people that do it in their office, we have people who've done it at a public library on a computer. People can do it on their smartphone in the bathroom. And then cost, it's less money. Generally, the average cost for an in-person visit is close to $500.

Carrie Baker: Have any of them said that they are having a hard time getting prompt appointments at traditional providers?

Melissa Grant: Yes, we've heard that more recently, especially since S.B. 8 in Texas.

Carrie Baker: Are people driving from Texas to the states you serve and doing telemedicine on the borders?

Melissa Grant: Not Texas yet, but I've seen it from other states like Louisiana where people have driven into Georgia because all providers in Louisiana are full. I have seen people from Oklahoma who've gone to Illinois.

Carrie Baker: Do any of your patients mention not wanting to cross picketers and protesters?

Melissa Grant: Some do. carafem offices are located within multi-use medical facilities with several other medical offices (like dentists, family practice providers, etc.) so we are not as challenged by protesters as we would be in a stand-alone building. We certainly hear it from people who don't have a private clinic in their area and it's a concern. And it's certainly greater in the South and the Midwest than the rest of the country.

Carrie Baker: What do your patients say about their experiences with telemedicine abortion? Are they having good experiences?

Melissa Grant: Yes. We ask them, "Would you recommend carafem to a friend or family member?" and "Do you feel treated with kindness and respect?" Overall, 95 to 99 percent of our clients agree or strongly agree on those two questions. It's incredibly moving to hear when we're able to meet a need or exceed expectations. It's amazing, especially when someone, because of stigma, assumes that this experience is going to be terrible or assumes that they may be judged.

And that's honestly one of the harder things about the telemedicine space. We have had some clients who've said straight out that the reason why they chose telemedicine is because they were afraid they would be judged by a healthcare provider going in person. And that was really, really tough for us to hear. We do everything that we can do to try to prevent that. But medicine in the United States is hard. And this particular type of medicine is harder than many others. There is judgment and there is a lot of stigma associated with even talking about birth control, much less abortion care. It shouldn't be that way.

Carrie Baker: What are your motivations for offering telemedicine abortion? Why do you do this?

Melissa Grant: The main reason is to try to make sure that people who need this care can continue to receive it. People should be able to get abortions in the way that makes the most sense to them. And sometimes in their communities, they can't. We do this because states around the country have started to shut down the opportunity to receive abortion care. The laws that have been passed in this country in the last year-more than 100-have restricted abortion care in some areas to the point where it's almost completely inaccessible.

Carrie Baker: How does it feel to be able to offer this service to people?

Melissa Grant: On one hand it's freeing because people sometimes will start off and say: Are you a real abortion provider? I can say, "Yeah we do that," which is wonderful. But at the same time disappointing, because we should not have delegitimized this needed and legal form of healthcare to the point where we can't get it another way. People should be able to receive care in a way that they need it and want it. Telemedicine abortion is a direct result of trying to find a workaround. It's part of that giant chess game that abortion providers have to play in order to continue to provide care. Yes, if it's better, that's wonderful. It's not always and it shouldn't be the only option. There are 19 states that ban telemedicine outright. That's not right. People are now deciding if they're going to self-manage an abortion with drugs that are imported from other countries because they can't even get telehealth abortion care in some states. I'm not saying it's not safe. They may be having good experiences, but oftentimes it's very slow.

Carrie Baker: What difference did the FDA lifting the in-person requirement for the abortion pill make to you?

Melissa Grant: The biggest thing is that it assures us that we'll continue to be able to provide abortion pills through the mail even after the pandemic is over. This will help increase access to abortion care to more people.

Carrie Baker: Any final thoughts?

Melissa Grant: Medication abortion has been legal for over 20 years in the United States. Abortion has been legal for nearly 50 years in the United States. We have taken a tremendous step backwards in this country in the past 10 years, even more so in the last year. I continue to be surprised, deeply saddened and concerned about what's going to happen to the people who depend on us for care in states that are severely limiting access.

Access to healthcare should not be determined by how much money you make, or what side of a state border you live on, or what your religious beliefs are or the color of your skin. We should all be able to get healthcare that is safe and dignified, and respects the individual differences that we have. You can't get that right now with abortion care in the United States. And some people have settled for the next best thing for a long time. People think, this law didn't mean anything. That law didn't really mean anything. We can still generally get care. But we're at a tipping point now. It's time for folks in this country to wake up. I believe the majority of people want abortion care to remain legal, so their friends, family, and community members are able to receive care that's safe, nonjudgmental and respectful of them as a human being.

Carrie Baker wrote this article for Ms. Magazine.


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Voters across the country approved a majority of measures in November to affirm abortion rights and supporters of an initiative to legalize abortion in Idaho said they are feeling momentum.

Voters approved seven of 10 state abortion-rights measures, including in Montana. A Florida measure received a majority of votes but did not reach the state's 60% threshold for passage.

In Idaho, pro-choice advocates are waiting for approval to collect signatures on a 2026 measure which would allow access to abortion until viability of the fetus.

Melanie Folwell, executive director of Idahoans United for Women and Families, is leading the effort.

"If there's anything that was very clear in November's election, it's that abortion amendments and abortion laws -- laws that expand access to reproductive options -- do well at the ballot, even in very 'red' states," Folwell asserted.

Idaho is one of six states with a near-total abortion ban. Folwell noted her organization is awaiting approval from the attorney general's office and could start collecting signatures by the end of January.

However, unlike many other states allowing voter initiatives to amend the state constitution, Idaho does not. If approved for the ballot, the abortion access measure would mean passing legislation, which in turn means legislators could repeal it. Folwell argued it is unfortunate, when people have been telling lawmakers since Roe v. Wade was overturned about the negative effects of banning abortion.

"They've heard from doctors, they've heard from health care systems, they've heard from patients themselves -- from women who have suffered needlessly as a result of these laws -- and they've done nothing," Folwell observed. "They've had two legislative sessions to do something. They've done nothing. And we think there's an imperative to just take this question to the people."

If the measure is approved to collect signatures, it would need 6% of signatures from registered voters from at least 18 of the state's 35 legislative districts, a total of about 70,000 signatures before April 30, 2026.


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Health clinics in New England and elsewhere are coping with a sharp uptick in requests for long-acting contraceptives in the wake of the election.

Planned Parenthood centers in New Hampshire, Maine, and Vermont report more than double their weekly average appointment inquiries for intrauterine devices - or IUD's - and the birth control implant.

Planned Parenthood of Northern New England CEO Nicole Clegg said the organization had exceeded its monthly average for vasectomy consultations by mid-November.

"There's a lot of anxiety," said Clegg, "that people have around whether or not they're going to have access to their preferred birth control choice."

Clegg said patients are also calling with concerns about the availability of gender-affirming care.

She said the increase mirrors what the organization experienced after President-elect Donald Trump's first win in 2016, and the eventual overturning of Roe v. Wade in 2022.

In New Hampshire, abortion remains accessible up to twenty-four weeks of pregnancy, but health care advocates note that state law does not expressly protect abortion rights and that anything could change under the new Republican trifecta at the statehouse.

Clegg said New Englanders are already showing a heightened interest in volunteering at health centers to ensure patients can get the care they need.

"We've had these intense fights before," said Clegg, "and time and time again the American public has stood up for Planned Parenthood and our rights. We think they'll do the same again this time."

Clegg said a loss of federal funds would reduce peoples' access to vital, preventative health care services.

The co-leaders of Trump's new Department of Government Efficiency have already vowed to cut $300 million earmarked for groups like Planned Parenthood, which they claim pursue a progressive agenda.





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A majority of South Dakotans have voted to maintain a strict abortion ban but other factors are shifting the landscape for reproductive care in the state.

Of the 10 states voting on abortion during the 2024 election, South Dakota was one of three to keep a ban in place.

Kim Floren, director of the Justice through Empowerment Network, which provides financial assistance to people seeking abortions, said the state's view on the issue is not new but concern is growing over how the federal government may affect reproductive rights.

"I'm feeling the panic from people who are in areas that maybe haven't experienced what we've experienced as far as barriers go," Floren noted. "The reality is that we as a community can figure out how to take care of one another."

The Justice through Empowerment Network provides assistance with travel and transportation, child care, lodging, interpreters, birth control and medical procedure funding. Floren pointed out the organization supports 30 to 40 people per month. The final tally for Amendment G, which would have established a right to abortion in the state's constitution, was 41% for and 59% against.

South Dakotans voted in 2006 and 2008 against near-total abortion bans but Floren stressed since then, President-elect Donald Trump's first term made people feel "emboldened to be more vocal." Still, she acknowledged his second term will begin in a different context than his first.

"Before Dobbs, we did not have all of these reliable, safe websites where you can order abortion pills from and have them sent to your house for extremely cheap," Floren observed. "In some ways, access here has gotten better."

Floren added Gov. Tim Walz of Minnesota will return to his post after running for vice president on the Democratic ticket. Walz in 2023 signed a bill protecting patients who travel to Minnesota for abortion care and their providers from legal penalties in other states.


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