Elder abuse is experienced by at least one in 10 people aged 60 and older who live at home, and AARP Wyoming is working to ensure people have the information they need to protect themselves and family members.

Paul Greenwood, a former San Diego deputy district attorney, said the actual number of incidents is much higher. Greenwood has prosecuted more than 750 felony cases of both physical and financial elder abuse, which he calls a hidden crime.

"And it is the one that perpetrators rely on, because there is so much silence out there about the crime," Greenwood pointed out. "Silence about reporting it by the victim because of embarrassment, maybe they know the perpetrator."

Abuse can be financial, physical, psychological, and extreme cases involve homicide. Greenwood noted one telltale sign of abuse is a distinct change in mood or deviations from normal behavior.

Greenwood will lead a Teletown Hall for preventing abuse at 6:30 p.m., Tuesday, April 19. To join the free event, call 833-380-0685. If you believe someone has fallen victim to abuse, call Adult Protective Services at 1-800-457-3659.

Social isolation during the pandemic may have contributed to a rise in romance scams. Greenwood explained perpetrators steal a legitimate person's identity, often someone with a military background. They troll dating sites looking for victims, and begin an online courtship. He added he is surprised by how many older adults fall victim, convinced they have found the love of their life.

"Although they've never met them, they've never even seen them in a FaceTime chat," Greenwood observed. "But then are willing to part with money when some tragedy befalls the so-called love interest."

Greenwood added stopping such crimes is not just up to family members and law enforcement. Neighbors, bank tellers, mail carriers, hairdressers, and clergy all need to know what to look for, because Greenwood emphasized it is our collective responsibility to not stay silent.

"If we suspect that a loved one or a neighbor is a victim of some form of either financial or physical abuse, then it is our duty to make that call to our local adult protective services," Greenwood urged.

November is National Family Caregivers Month and AARP Wyoming is working to meet rising demand for caregiver resources.

About 58,000 Wyomingites provide needed care for sick or elderly family members or loved ones, estimated to be more than 54 million hours of unpaid labor per year, according to AARP Wyoming.

The group launched a "Care for Caregivers" series last year to help people navigate common issues like financial planning, safety and mobility, end-of-life decisions and more.

Stella Montano, volunteer president of AARP Wyoming, who helped develop the series and is a caregiver herself, said many people who take on such duties do not consider themselves caregivers but they should acknowledge the real workload the role can be.

"Have you noticed that maybe your parents are aging and you're assuming more responsibilities? Or has someone been diagnosed with something that you might have to have oversight of their medical needs?" Montano asked. "People don't believe they're caregivers. But they still have a lot of responsibilities."

The series was first offered in Sheridan and expanded this year to Casper, Newcastle and Cheyenne. AARP also offers resources on its website.

The structure of the workshops recognizes caregivers' needs. There are free meals for attendees and respite care offered on-site for loved ones brought along to a session. Montano noted they are designed to be as accessible as possible.

"I really stress to caregivers, to not do it alone," Montano urged. "There is help out there."

She added Sheridan's VA Medical Center has also tapped into the programming and began recording videos of the sessions this year, which will be available online soon.

For many, the holiday season is a time of joy and celebration - but it can often bring loneliness and isolation for older adults.

Steve Morrison, a volunteer with AARP Virginia, described the holidays as the worst time for isolation - a challenge he knows well after years of caregiving for his wife.

He highlighted mobility as a significant issue for seniors with limited ability to walk, access transportation, and manage health challenges.

Drawing from his own experiences, Morrison has been addressing isolation through community-building efforts, a mission he began well before the COVID-19 pandemic intensified the problem.

"You have to get out there some way, either online, by phone, or in conversation with neighbors - and let people know that you're in isolation and you just need someone to talk to," said Morrison. "At least in my neighborhood, that has worked for me and for others. The neighbors have really stepped up. "

Morrison launched a monthly luncheon in McLean, Virginia, to help people connect over a meal.

The initiative has been a success, with up to 50 attendees per event, though he now caps it at 40 after an earlier turnout of 75 overwhelmed the venue.

He recommended resources like the National Institute on Aging, and AARP's Connect2Affect program - which offer tools to assess isolation, find volunteer opportunities, and access local support.

While Morrison's program is one of the few remaining events in his area since COVID, he said he hopes to inspire others to create similar opportunities.

He said he was deeply moved by how his neighbors rallied to provide meals when surgeries left him and his wife homebound.

"You just gotta be proactive. Even though you may be limited to transportation or your mobility. You just got to let people know, you have neighbors close by that are more than willing to help," said Morrison. "So that would be the first place that I would start. But these other websites if you have technology options, all have really good suggestions. "

Such as the Fairfax County Virginia website.

According to AARP, there is a 26% increased risk of early death due to feeling lonely.

Some other tips to combat isolation include adopting a pet if you can care for one, signing up for classes at your local library, restarting an old hobby, or scheduling set times to interact with family and friends - in person, by email, social media, voice call, or text.

However, Morrison cautioned against too much dependence on social media.

Older Idahoans have an opportunity to speak with Governor Brad Little next week.

AARP Idaho is hosting a telephone town hall with the governor, providing an opportunity for members to ask questions ahead of the 2025 legislative session.

State Director of AARP Idaho Lupe Wissel said people could have questions about health care, housing affordability, or property taxes, for instance.

"It's a very unique opportunity and one that is not offered to everyone," said Wissel, "and we do this regularly because it is very important that the elected officials do hear the voices of the 50+ community in this state."

The Idaho legislative session starts on January 6. The town hall will be held on November 25 at 3 p.m. Mountain time, 2 p.m. Pacific.

People can join at 866-767-0637 or online at AARP Idaho's Facebook page.

Wissel said AARP Idaho holds town halls with the state's leaders on a regular basis. She said elected officials know it's important to hear from older Idahoans.

"They know that this is a big constituency, large constituency," said Wissel. "They really pay attention to what's happening and they want to make sure that their voices are heard, and they want to listen to what they have to say."

Wissel noted that older Idahoans make up a large voting bloc in the state. She said in the 2022 election, people age 50 and older were 64% of the electorate.

Nearly 630,000 Idahoans are 50 and older.